Family Secret Santa Generator with Exclusions

Family Secret Santa without the spreadsheet

Add the family, keep partners from drawing each other, and send each person a private link. Wishlists mean no more guessing what your cousin wants.

  • No ads
  • No paywall
  • No sign-up to join
  • Exclusions
  • Wishlists

Start a draw

Kind of exchange

Everyone draws a name and buys for that person.

Takes 30 seconds · nobody needs an account

Why families switch to Secret Santa

Buying a gift for everyone gets expensive as families grow. With Secret Santa each person buys one thoughtful gift instead of many small ones, and everyone still opens something on the day.

Exclusions for couples and households

Partners usually buy for each other anyway, so most families exclude couples from drawing each other. Add an exclusion for each pair before you draw. The draw also avoids two people simply swapping, so nobody can work out their Santa from who they drew.

Kids and people without phones

You can add anyone by name yourself. When names are drawn, copy each person's link and send it to a parent, or open it with them. Each link shows only that person's match.

FAQ

Questions

Can we reuse last year's group?

Yes. Open last year's organizer page and press "Copy to a new exchange". Everyone, their exclusions and emails come along, and you can stop anyone drawing the same person again.

What if someone lives abroad?

That works. Use the note to everyone to say whether to ship gifts or exchange them on a video call.

Is it really free?

Yes, with no ads and no paid tier.

Guides

Every kind of exchange